Just have a look at following incidents:
1) Spouses feel that they understand each other and having been together for so many years, they don’t need to speak out, and they don’t need to express themselves. RESULT: So many divorces?
2) Employer assumes that all his employees are aware of, as what is expected out of them, no need to communicate, no need to prepare a Job Profile. RESULT: High Attrition rate.
3) I assume that all my friends understand me, my way of thinking, no need to tell everything and anything. RESULT: Conflicts.
4) I love XYZ, and assume that she is aware of my love, by way of my expressions, my actions and behavior and there is no need to express it. RESULT: Misunderstandings.
5) All parent love their children and assume that children are also aware of it, no need to express it. RESULT: Broken Families.
6) I am frustrated; I am in pain and I am depressed and assume that all people around me, are aware of it, by way of my behavior and attitude and there is no need to discuss it. RESULT: High stress…leading to heart related diseases.
Conclusion: Friends, though speaking anything, everything, all nonsense, is a wastage of time and energy but being silent, keeping mum and presuming things is CRIME. So, if you are able to speak, speak out, if someone is making you happy; speak out; if you have anything to share; speak out, if someone is upsetting you; speak out, if you are in pain.
Don’t presume things but speak out, because, silence is crime.
Via: Renju
1) Spouses feel that they understand each other and having been together for so many years, they don’t need to speak out, and they don’t need to express themselves. RESULT: So many divorces?
2) Employer assumes that all his employees are aware of, as what is expected out of them, no need to communicate, no need to prepare a Job Profile. RESULT: High Attrition rate.
3) I assume that all my friends understand me, my way of thinking, no need to tell everything and anything. RESULT: Conflicts.
4) I love XYZ, and assume that she is aware of my love, by way of my expressions, my actions and behavior and there is no need to express it. RESULT: Misunderstandings.
5) All parent love their children and assume that children are also aware of it, no need to express it. RESULT: Broken Families.
6) I am frustrated; I am in pain and I am depressed and assume that all people around me, are aware of it, by way of my behavior and attitude and there is no need to discuss it. RESULT: High stress…leading to heart related diseases.
Conclusion: Friends, though speaking anything, everything, all nonsense, is a wastage of time and energy but being silent, keeping mum and presuming things is CRIME. So, if you are able to speak, speak out, if someone is making you happy; speak out; if you have anything to share; speak out, if someone is upsetting you; speak out, if you are in pain.
Don’t presume things but speak out, because, silence is crime.
Via: Renju
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